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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL (CIVIL DIVISION)
ON APPEAL FROM THE PLYMOUTH COUNTY COURT
(His Honour Judge Tyzack QC)
Strand London Wednesday 24th July, 2002 |
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B e f o r e :
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S (A CHILD) |
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THE RESPONDENT did not appear and was not represented
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"I find Mr S to be an emotional man, driven by a passion and an obsession for shared parenting and that he is not a man who is likely to be able to negotiate and to reach agreements other than in circumstances where his view is to be preferred."
"You see, it is very rare, I can tell you this, it is very rare indeed for a court, with a child as young as [E], a joint residence order, in other words, one where the parties following separation effectively share the care of the child. That is very rare for that to happen. It is most unusual. I have never made such an order."
"The experience of these courts is very clearly that children, following the unfortunate breakdown of the parents' relationship, children normally do best in one home with good contact to the other non-residential parent. That is our experience in these courts, and you are facing an uphill task."
"I am quite satisfied on the evidence I have heard that a joint residence order in this particular case, and I emphasise that, would be an absolute disaster."
"It seems to me, looking at the whole history of this case, having seen the parents myself giving evidence, the dynamic between them is not such that sharing [E's] care would be likely to promote her best interests."
"Can I ask your Honour whether you intended to stipulate a period of time for the longer summer holiday contact. I particularly have in mind this year."
"Seven nights."
"I would not argue against that, your Honour."
"I shall say seven nights this summer but, as I have said, the parties should work towards the aim that [the CFR] spoke about which is that of half each school holiday, half of each half-term and fortnightly weekends."
"I would not argue against that."
plainly Mr S should have been on his feet saying, "But I do; seven nights is not enough" and he could have given his reasons and perhaps the judge would have changed his mind. Mr S did not, but he quite reasonably explains that he, as a litigant in person, was by that stage both tired and, although he has not said this, he was probably in a state of turmoil. I can very readily understand why he missed that golden opportunity.
"You understand the order I have made?"
"It is a sole residence order for Mrs S with contact to you with the aim that I have indicated and that is very important, that aim is enshrined in the process. You are clear about the details of contact from now?"
"... I am not clear about the aim for one thing. You say the aim is, and in my profession if you say an aim you have a time limit to it or it is meaningless."
"Yes."
"Is there a time limit to the aims being achieved?"
"It needs to be taken at E's pace."
"The history of that is not good, your Honour."
"I am aware of that and that is why I have had to make the observations I have. Mr Osborne, is there any observation you would like to make?
The CFR then said:
"If I could, your Honour. If I try to be objective, are we saying not for at least this first year should there be any movement toward that end? I feel she needs that period to acclimatise.
The judge:
"Yes, but next year..."
"That we the situation."
"If I said that it is the aim that the arrangements as I have indicated should be in place by eighteen months' time, would you have any quarrel with that?"
"No."
"Between between twelve and eighteen months?"
"That's fair enough."