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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales Family Court Decisions (High Court Judges) >> CL (Fact Finding : Coercive Control) [2020] EWFC 109 (06 November 2020) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWFC/HCJ/2020/109.html Cite as: [2020] EWFC 109 |
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B e f o r e :
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G Local Authority |
Applicant |
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SC Mother - and - FL Father - and - CL |
1st Respondent 2nd Respondent 3rd Respondent |
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Ms Alison Moore (instructed by Burke Niazi Solicitors) for the 1st Respondent
Ms Rebekah Wilson (instructed by Goodman Ray Solicitors) for the 2nd Respondent
Ms Diane McBrinn (instructed by Spearpoint Franks Solicitors) for the 3rd Respondent
Hearing dates: 23 October and 2, 3, 4, 5 & 6 November 2020
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Crown Copyright ©
WILLIAMS J:
Background
"Whether there is more to it than that and whether she feels some guilt associated with anything she has done I do not know. Only the mother truly knows why she has behaved as she has and even, she may not fully understand. She will at least know what she has and hasn't done which might bear upon the answer to that question. She is clearly a victim of domestic abuse. There is nothing in her history which would point to her having been an accomplished manipulator and deceiver of authorities; rather prior to her involvement with the father what I have read of her suggests that she was an intelligent albeit perhaps somewhat rebellious daughter of a traditional and respectable family. How she has come to her current position is difficult to explain and I am unable to reach any conclusions on it beyond those I have already."
"It is clear in this case that the impact of the father's coercive and controlling behaviour upon the mother has the potential to be extremely serious. Secretly recording sexual activity or monitoring her behaviour, monitoring her movements, lying to her about his relationships with other individuals, treating her without respect or indeed with contempt, intimidating her by threatening to expose her or her family by publishing sensitive material are all corrosive of her as an individual, her ability to provide optimal care to the child and thus harmful to a child's health and development. To the extent that they might be observed by the child as she grows, they would undermine her sense of the autonomy of her mother and perhaps of women and of the nature of intimate relationships. This would be clearly harmful. To the extent that she might witness direct violence or intimidation this would clearly carry with it the risk of emotional harm and might expose her to harm directly if she were to intervene in some shape or form. Finally were the mother to respond impulsively to some aspect of the father's behaviour as she did in February 2019 she might either harm herself directly with consequential harm to the child or might engage in behaviour which in itself exposes the child to a direct risk of harm as occurred on 27 January 2020 when the child was handed over 22nd floor balcony and remained outside for five hours with the mother on a cold and wet night when she was but two months of age. All of this then falls within the meaning of harm and in my view highly significant harm."
Conclusion
Appendix
Introduction
1. This concerns the welfare of CL
2. The relevant date is - January 2020 when G LA applied for an Emergency Protection Order.
3. The 1st Respondent is CL's mother, SC
4. The 2nd respondent is the child's father, FL
5. It is more likely than not that at the relevant date CL was at risk of significant harm namely: physical and emotional abuse.
6. The risk of physical harm comes from the danger posed to CL in being caught up in a violent incident between the parents or because of CL being placed in physical danger because of the mother's poor decision making and the 1st Respondent's inability to protect CL. The mother loves CL and would not deliberately seek to cause CL physical harm.
Findings of harm
7. The relationship between the 1st and 2nd Respondents from May 2018 was abusive and was characterised by coercive and controlling behaviour by the 2nd Respondent including
(i) Controlling her social life – including her contact with her family
(ii) Controlling her finances
(iii) Monitoring her phone and maintaining surveillance of her movements including with the intention to use information obtained thereby to control her,
(iv) Monitoring and seeking to control the 1st Respondent's movements
(v) Recording their sex on occasion non-consensually with the threat that this would be used against the first respondent
(vi) aggression
(vii) physical assault of the 1st Respondent – including strangulation
(viii) pressurising the 1st Respondent to have sex with the 2nd Respondent
(ix) threats to go after her family and well as the 1st Respondent if she were to ever go against him
8. The dysfunctional relationship caused the mother anxiety and stress.
9. From June 2019, the 1st Respondent was offered significant support- including with separating from 2nd Respondent and maintaining that separation but the 1st Respondent lied about having separated from him, lied in the course of interventions designed to protect her – negating the effect of the same. The 1st Respondent undermined all protective work and safety plans designed to protect her and her child. The 2nd Respondent conspired with the 1st Respondent to undermine all protective work and safety plans designed to protect CL.
10. The 1st Respondent maintained physical contact with the 2nd Respondent until 27th January 2020 when the 2nd Respondent was remanded in custody.
11. In 2020 up until the applicable date, the 1st Respondent had sought to avoid child protection authorities including by considering leaving the country with CL
12. The Respondent mother absconded with CL to be with the 2nd Respondent neglecting CL's physical and emotional needs.